| Sexuality and Aging
"A Personal Treasure Unclaimed" (EXCERPT) Martha (Marti) Barham R.N., Ph.D. |
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Intimacy is a lifelong need that incorporates companionship, caring, and helpfulness. The desire for human touch is an essential part of intimacy for young and old alike. These needs endure even when the ability or appetite for sex have diminished.
Sexual functioning is inherent in all human beings. It serves as an expression of who we are, allowing us to reveal our gender role, gender expression, and sexual behavior. Human sexuality incorporates dreams, fantasies, ideals, and in addi-tion, gives us pleasure, even laughter. Sexual expression involves learning, thinking, communication, and interaction - not just sexual activity. All aspects of our sexuality remain with us throughout our life span and are enduring even if denied. The role of sexuality in the aging process is a topic rarely openly discussed. Many attitudes still prevail that geriatric patients certainly would not be sexually active, and yet this is far from the truth. Although physical health may not be categorized as good, sexual activity could be very nurturing and fulfilling. As the aging process continues physical changes do occur within the human body affecting sexual expression. Many geriatric patients, however, are still motivated by attitudes that sex is bad, sex is for the young, and that after a certain age the desire for sex ceases. Movies, television, etc., portray very specific visual information regarding sexual functioning and expression: how, when, and with whom. The naturalness of human sexuality and expression and how it contin-ues throughout the life span must be presented and addressed. In this era of holistic health, physicians sensitive to the aging process and the role of human sexuality can broaden the perspective of geriatric health care. For the complete article, please request by phone: (808) 591- 6296 or letter: Martha (Marti) Barham R.N., Ph.D. 615 Piikoi St., Suite 2002 Honolulu, HI 96814 Top of Page / Home Page |
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